Planning a wedding in Ireland is an exciting journey, but without a clear budget, things can quickly spiral out of control. Whether you’re dreaming of a castle celebration or a cozy gathering in the countryside, knowing how much you’re working with (and where it’s going) is essential. Here’s a step-by-step guide to creating a realistic wedding budget that works for you.
What Do Weddings in Ireland Cost?
Before you dive into your own numbers, it’s helpful to know what others are spending. weddingsonline’s Annual Wedding Survey offers a glimpse into the average costs across the country. While these figures can be eye-opening, remember: this isn’t a competition. You’re not obliged to match the national average or copy anyone’s priorities. If your budget is smaller (or larger), that’s perfectly fine. The goal is to spend in a way that reflects your values and preferences.
What Are the Most Important Elements for You?
This step is all about aligning visions. Sit down with your partner and talk through what matters most to each of you. Is it the food and drinks? A live band? A dreamy honeymoon? Prioritising what’s important makes it easier to allocate your budget meaningfully and avoid overspending on less significant elements.
Where Are You Happy to Splurge?
Once you’ve agreed on your priorities, consider where you might want to stretch your budget. Maybe you want top-shelf wine or a custom designer dress. Identify these non-negotiables early so you can adjust other areas accordingly.
Who’s Contributing?
It’s a sensitive topic, but discussing finances with family early on can avoid awkwardness later. If parents or loved ones are contributing, it’s important to know how much they’re offering before you make any big decisions. Once you know what’s available, you can determine what you and your partner will need to add to the pot.
What’s Your Total Budget?
Now it’s time to do the maths. Add up any family contributions and what you and your partner can realistically save or contribute – whether it’s from savings, monthly contributions, or (for some) a small loan. Remember: your guest list and location will heavily influence your final figure, so be realistic with your expectations.
How Will You Divide It?
With a figure in hand, break down your budget into categories: venue, catering, attire, photography, flowers, transport, entertainment, and so on. Use the Wedding Survey as a helpful guide, but don’t be afraid to customise your list based on your priorities.
How Will You Stay on Track?
Setting a budget is just the beginning – sticking to it is where the real challenge lies. Use a spreadsheet, budgeting app, or even a trusty notebook to keep track of deposits, due dates, and running totals. Regular check-ins will help you avoid surprises and keep your finances in check right up to the Big Day.
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